I have written a post about the optics of the ongoing differences among both the factions within the GOP and the conservative movement, but also the left and the Democrats.
In that post I discussed how the way we present our points of view, can and will affect how those points are received by those we seek and need to convert to our way of seeing things, or at least encourage them to listen to us and our views on how to solve the pressing issues of the day.
I may have written the wrong post first, however, I will now attempt to discuss what happens when we actually attempt to have a dialog.
On several of my recent post, it has been demonstrated what happens when people hear ideas that they see as being diametrically opposed to their own. Including the fore mentioned post titled, “Optics”. People were so caught up in the issue that I used as an example, that they were unable, or unwilling to see the true message of the post. This was again demonstrated when I wrote a post about an issue that has always caused people on both sides of the issue to become both emotional and irrational.
The problem that we are having in the world today in solving the larger problems facing our society, is not a lack of good ideas and hard-working people to put them into motion, no, the problem is that far too many people are too busy talking, and unwilling to listen. In other words there is no real dialog.
The first step to solving any problem that involves a large number of people is coming to a conclusion on how best to serve the needs of the many. (No that was not a Star Trek reference.)
In too many cases people on either side of an issue are unwilling to first listen to the other side, before they condemn that other side to being wrong at best, and if not just wrong, they will accuse them of all sort of conspiratorial and personal motives for putting forth the views that they do. In the minds of some people there is never the possibility that there can actually be two different points of view, and that possibly both sides could be right, but coming from two different places to arrive at the same destination.
The reason some people cannot come to this conclusion is that they have decided that by simply being a member of a certain political party, or for holding a differing view on a separate issue, then these people cannot be trusted or believed on any issue or topic. And I have to admit that sometimes that is the case. There are ideologues. I am one myself to a certain extent. I believe the things I believe. I am convinced that I am correct in my beliefs. I hold true to my values and principles, and will not compromise them.
However, I have learned that there is a difference between compromising principles, and finding a compromise to solving a problem. The two our not inseparable.
This is what is currently holding back both the GOP and the conservative movement. There are far too many people on both sides of any debate, who are unwilling to find that compromise to a problem, because they see that as compromising their principles and values.
This is not a characteristic of the GOP only, there is a good deal of it within the liberal movement and the Democrat party. The difference being, that within the Democrat party, the more reasonable faction has been beaten down to the point of silence by a more radicalized faction. They have done this by labeling anyone who steps outside of the prescribed rhetoric and talking points as being crazy, or racist, or homophobic, or any number of other things that will frighten the more reasonable members into silence. The discussion within their party has come to a near stand still, with a certain faction running the party through fear tactics. The more radicalized faction of the Democrat Party is now seen as the voice and the face of that party. It is felt that if you want to deal with the Democrat Party, then you must appease that faction that hold the more radical views on issues. This makes it hard for the Republicans to make any compromise simply because any deal with any Democrat, on any issue will be seen as dealing with that element within the Democrat Party.
We in the Republican Party are going through the growing pains of the same type of movement. When the TEA movement came on the scene, it was seen as a grass-roots movement that was able to motivate large numbers of people to become involved, and that is exactly what it did. The problem for the GOP is the same as for the Democrat Party. How to first deal with creating a dialog within your own party? So as to be able to have a dialog with the opposition.
The Republican Party is struggling right now to find its identity. Who it is, and what it will be. The national GOP has announced that it will be seeking new ways to deliver the conservative message. The Delaware state GOP has echoed this message. The problem, both the national, and state party leadership will face is that many of the rank and file voters and the activist among them, will not understand the need, and will equate this with compromising on principles. The more reasonable Republicans will see the need, the more radicalized will scream that the party is moving left.
As I said, the Republican Party has the same problem that the Democrats have, in the GOP, the TEA movement and its splinter groups here in Delaware such as the 9/12 Delaware Patriots, have taken to shouting down any view-point that is not lockstep with their own. They have done such a great job at being the loudest voice, if not the most informed voice, that they have become the voice and the face of the Republican Party here in Delaware, and are painted as such across the nation. Again, the more radicalized element of a party seems to be the true voice of the party, so the opposition cannot or will not be seen as compromising with that element, for fear of losing the base and majority of the reasonable members of their own party. So I ask the question once again, how does the GOP first find a way to bring the differing factions within the party together and have a dialog, so that we can then have a reasonable dialog with the opposition.
With marquee members of the GOP, like Rand Paul and Sarah Palin even recognizing that the party must change its tactics and its delivery style of messaging, will the rank and file members see and understand the need?
Let us look first at the idea of changing the hardline stance on immigration by the GOP. In the past any compromise has been seen as amnesty. It is a pretty good bet that now that the party leadership of the GOP is calling for some new form of reform, that a large number of rank and file members will label this as amnesty. This will happen with little or no understanding of what the reform will actually look like, it will happen long before any real roadmap is drawn up. It will happen without any attempt at a dialog.
We in this nation are deteriorating into smaller and smaller sub factions of ideology, unwilling to honestly debate ideas, let alone work to find compromise. The very word compromise has taken on a negative meaning to some. To speak of compromise is to open yourself up to ridicule and accusations of being a sellout. The real problem for the parties, is that as they segregate themselves into these small sub factions, they lose their ability to win elections, then they lose the ability to govern, for if you cannot win, you cannot govern. The they lose the ability to lead, for if you cannot win, you cannot govern, and you cannot lead. And if you cannot lead, you are doomed to follow.
Currently in Delaware, the Democrats are in control of the government for the most part. This has been possible, both because they have bullied their members into submission, and because the Delaware GOP has been lazy and weak. It has allowed a sub faction to work at its overthrow. I have to admit that I played my part in this, though I did not see the end results of my efforts, and I honestly never intended to push anyone else out of the party. But that is where we are, we are weak because certain factions within the party refuse to have even a dialog with the rest of the party, they seek to shut the other factions out completely. This is true on both, or multiple side of any issue. There are more moderate members that will not recognize the need to hear and listen to the social conservatives, there are the constitutional conservatives that will listen to no one on any issue that does not agree with them on their hot button issues. There are social liberals within the GOP that label the more conservative in the party as crazy and will not seek compromise.
The bottom line is, until we learn to stop shouting at each other within the party, and work together, we are doomed to never win, never govern, never lead. We will be doomed to simply follow.


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